Letter to an Upset Christian
Jan. 12th, 2019 11:00 amHere is a note I recently sent off to a Christian upset about a series of "Christian-bashing" posts from fellow Westerners on a certain internet platform. This poster made the common error of assuming that people taking issue with Christianity must have pent-up psychological issues or a lack of understanding on what the Christian faith really is (more like what this person believes it to be).
I'm quite curious to know where this exchange might lead. The cynical/realist side of me says this person will probably just double down and nothing productive will come out of this. But I do really like unexpected surprises and I always have my hopes up, even if it's just in the form of a faint glimmer.
You might want to ask about people's specific backgrounds before assuming the reasons and motivations of why they might harbor certain opinions. For example, you might discover that a lot of "Christian-bashers" may have been raised in staunchly Christian households and thus know the faith quite intimately. And of course others may have not. Everyone has a slightly different situation and place they are coming from.
A major reality you have to face is that we now have free choice in terms of what we can believe and disbelieve. Christian institutions in the West no longer enjoy the exclusive power of violently forcing their ideology onto the masses and thus making Christian beliefs and practices compulsory for everyone. Now that your religion's monopoly has eroded, it has to compete in the ideological free market just like everyone else's has to. Heretic-hunts and inquisitions will no longer keep people in churches. Ham-fisted and fear-based tactics will simply scare people off and they'll go looking elsewhere for spiritual answers. My own prediction is that spirituality in general is going to move away from sectarianism and become more personal and individualized in terms of practices and beliefs people take on. Take a look at how pluralistic Eastern spiritual traditions are, for example.
Some soul-searching and introspection might be in order among you and your co-religionists. If you guys can re-tool your Jesus cult to fit emerging paradigm, then Christianity is some form will survive and may even thrive. But to double down on the old ways will simply mean you get left in the dust. You guys do have quite fertile ground to work with. Despite the decline of institutional Christianity, the image of Jesus Christ is still one of the most potent and righteous light-bearing thought-forms in the Western psyche.
I'm quite curious to know where this exchange might lead. The cynical/realist side of me says this person will probably just double down and nothing productive will come out of this. But I do really like unexpected surprises and I always have my hopes up, even if it's just in the form of a faint glimmer.